Archive - For The Lovers

Should I Get A Boob Job?

My recent moral dilemma, the desire to be a woman, unlearning years of social conditioning, feminist falsehoods + when did everyone get their tits…

Aug 8 •

Courtney Holmes

Introducing For The Lovers

An Evolution + Invitation

Aug 4 •

Courtney Holmes

July 2025

Kindness, In This Economy?

I'm a good person, but is that enough?

Jul 13 •

Courtney Holmes

Why Are We So Afraid of Love?

on the beauty of fear, the privilege of falling and why perfection is the enemy of love

Jul 1 •

Courtney Holmes

June 2025

On asking for help, the fear of being saved, unconditional love and a fresh start

Jun 22 •

Courtney Holmes

May 2025

What My Best Friend Has Taught Me About Love

Dedicated to those who hold us

May 24 •

Courtney Holmes

The Curious Child

Confessions of a 'why' asker

May 12

the morning after midnight

May 5 •

Courtney Holmes

April 2025

My Month of Mess

Four short stories dedicated to friendship and letting go of who I thought I was

Apr 27 •

Courtney Holmes

dedicated to my religion: love

Apr 17 •

Courtney Holmes

March 2025

how our desire to be perceived has left us more misunderstood and disconnected than ever

Mar 30

Why I Don't Believe In 'Right Person, Wrong Time'

and why loving someone is never a waste

Mar 24

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